The Thomas Bepko Podcast
Welcome to the Thomas Bepko Podcast, where business, real estate, mindset, and real life come together.
Hosted by Thomas Bepko, Owner of Yellowbrick Real Estate and Executive Vice President of Sales at Total Mortgage, this podcast features real conversations with entrepreneurs, business owners, creators, and local leaders across Connecticut.
From real estate, investing, mortgage strategy, and NY to CT relocation, to mindset, family, discipline, and personal growth, nothing is off limits. Thomas shares honest stories, practical advice, local insight, and lessons learned from nearly two decades helping thousands of families buy, sell, invest, and build wealth.
New episodes every month with people building real businesses and real lives.
The Thomas Bepko Podcast
Marriage After Kids, ADHD, and Ultimatums That Changed Everything ft. Lila Sussman Bepko (My wife)
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TJ sits down with his wife, Lila, for a real talk on love, screwups, and doing the work. They cover the early red flags, the breakup, cheating, and why they chose therapy and forgiveness. Lila shares how being a therapist helps and sometimes hurts at home. They get into ADHD in marriage, feeling heard, I-statements, sex vs emotional connection, and why your partner can’t meet every need. Parenting and co-parenting, losing each other after kids, and how to put wood back on the fire. Clear takeaways, no fluff, just what actually helped them stay together.